Feelings.

A person who can lie to oneself is lonely and agonizing. This is what she once told me... She said that people who are lonely create these invisible walls around them, to shelter themself from pain and suffering... They make themself imagine that nothing is wrong and that they're happy in their current state of mind. A person who hasn't been hurt for real could never understand the reason... the fear of being forced to go through that pain again... to have to suffer like that again.. It's too frightening to even think about. This is why most of the people doesn't understand these kind of persons... And in the end they often end up getting blamed on.. The people who say that it's their fault for not opening up, really are the worst. Those kind of people have never endured real pain... even if they think so. The thought of people like that makes me mad... people who think that they know and have been through everything... So annoying. If you think that your friend or acquaintance is going through these kind of feelings. Then don't ignore it, for a change try to listen to them... try to understand the fear inside of them and most of all don't judge them... No matter what the reason for their isolation is, do not judge them. that's a common mistake almost everyone does... thinking she's weird, stupid etc.. stupid people -.-